First time opening up! “Pat Napapa” about the origin of having a second child for the first time! On WOODY FM, she tells the story behind breaking down the walls in her heart. Both Nong Racing and her boyfriend, P Non, are very happy. She also revealed that her son and her boyfriend had a disagreement before, so they had to clear things up. What was the reason?
In the past, you have been through everything. Now that your child is 7 years old, what have you seen about yourself?
Pat Napapa: Very happy, maybe because of a changed lifestyle. Having a child is related. Thoughts, mindset, many things. People around us change with age. And Pat thinks that’s how it is. When I was young, I worked hard. I just knew that in life I had to work. But today, it’s like I’ve worked a lot, so I have a budget to continue living like this without having to work as hard as before. So Pat has come back to living life more.
Traveling more, every other week. Pattaya is just around the corner, which was never the case before. Traveling for Pat is a waste of work time. We should use the time to work. But when we see it today, we feel that this is good. I am happy. It is so good that we can choose to live like this. Before, if you ask me, I did not want to change anything because before that it should have been like that. If it had not been like that then, I would not have had the opportunity to do it today. I feel that when lifestyle changes, when I have a child, I want to spend time with him. Pat is very attached to him. I love him so much.
There are 2 young men in your life. Ask about your child before the communication method in the past. Your child may have questions that have never been discussed before or consulted at the age of 7, have you started to have any?
Pat Napapa: At first, Pat was the fierce one and P was the fun one. Suddenly, it turned over. He is a strict person, but we were okay with it because we felt that we had to balance it. At first, we were fierce and he was a balanced person, so our son talked to him. But today, he is strict because he might think that at 7 years old, he has more responsibilities and studies. This time, our son will start to consult with Pat about everything. But in our family, we talk to each other. For example, there was a time when we just had a deep talk with P because our son felt that his father was not as fun as before. Why did he feel that way? Before, he was very fun. Before, he called P before Pat, but now he only calls Mom.
When I started to see this mass, I talked to my son about whether there was something wrong or not. Why didn’t he seem as happy as before? My son told me that we could adjust so that we could live happily together. He said that his father was very strict. He used to dare to speak, but now he doesn’t feel like speaking at all. Pat talked about this with him. When P heard this, he was shocked because he didn’t realize it. He wanted Nong Racing to grow up, be more responsible, and more determined. Pat said that he understood that you meant well, but your actions might have to change because right now your son doesn’t like this and isn’t happy.
So how did he adjust it?
Pat Napapa: He calmed down. Pat saw the change after we sat down and talked. On the way to pick up the child together, this is how sometimes we don’t have to rush. Pat said one thing that our child is not like other people. Before meeting him, Pat raised him in a different way. Therefore, some things have to be perfect. Some things might not be. But Pat understood his good intentions. But Pat just said to try changing the method. Which is very good now. He adjusted our child back. Pat asked him if he was happy. Is there anything else he wanted to tell his mother? He said no, he was not happy. Which we used to tell P that our child is the heart of Pat. And the words that if the child is not happy, do you know how I would feel?
Will there be a second person?
Pat Napapa: I thought so too, Woody (laughs). I was embarrassed.
Are you ready?
Pat Napapa: It’s close. Actually, Pat talked to him that she doesn’t want to have more because Racing is 7 years old. This year, Pat is 38 years old and she feels that having another child will be far from her child. Pat has many things in her mind and wants the first person to accept it to be her child. If Race has a sibling, which will come from P’s mother and father, Race wants it, right? You have to ask him first. If one day we have a sibling, you have to be really sure that we will love this sibling together, not just a momentary emotion. Pat also took time to think if our bodies are ready to have another child. Until today, Pat saw that he didn’t force her and he supported her. But Pat saw P’s eyes that when he said that he wouldn’t have a child, he was sad.
We thought that if we were going to have one, we must not have it for someone. We must agree on everything. Otherwise, this matter would not be happy. Until today, the distance has been more than 2 years. Next year, we will have been living together for 3 years. Throughout the 2 years, he has made Pat love him more every day. And Pat feels happy to have him. Our child loves him. And our child wants to have a sibling. He said he wants to have a sibling from his mother and father, P. Isn’t it surprising? Until then, we had a serious talk that it’s okay. Finish this work by the end of this year. Early next year, I will prepare for you. We planned and talked. Next year, Pat will start to have a physical examination to see if Pat’s uterus is okay. The egg donation is not finished. It is not the end of the process. He has to have a serious health examination. This year, Pat is working. Next year, the process will start.
You said that being fat is just a memory of that day. But today, if you take care of yourself, you don’t have to gain 10 kilograms. But you want to enjoy eating, right?
Pat Napapa: Yes, and every time Pat said that Mom was okay and would give me another one, Racing’s face and P’s face were like sunflowers. Their faces were so wide. We felt that this expression broke down all the walls in my heart.
